Rianne Hottinga – From the Golden Cage to Wild Alignment

Former corporate lawyer. Entrepreneur. Mother. Creator.
Rianne’s story is not about burning everything down overnight —
it’s about listening earlier, choosing braver, and redefining success on your own terms.


The Conversation

When success looks right — but feels wrong

Rianne had everything she was told to want:
a prestigious career in law, recognition, money, and stability.

And still, something was quietly breaking down.

In this conversation, Rianne shares her journey from high-performing corporate lawyer to entrepreneur and creator — including burnout, identity loss, failure, courage, and the slow return to her own essence.

This is a conversation about:

  • following a dream that was never truly yours
  • the cost of staying too long
  • listening to the body before it screams
  • choosing desire over approval
  • and trusting yourself when no one else does

No hero story. No shortcuts. Just honesty.

→ Listen to the conversation episode


The Reflection

What happens when you change because you want to — not because you have to

After the conversation, Tove and Stephanie reflect on what stood out — and what stayed with them.

This reflection explores:

  • the difference between wanting to change and being forced to
  • why standing still is a radical act
  • work-life integration instead of balance
  • failure as refinement, not proof of being wrong
  • small steps as the foundation for big change

This episode is for listeners who felt something shift — but aren’t sure why yet.

→ Listen to the reflection episode


Key Themes from Rianne’s Story

  • Success without depth is still emptiness
  • Your body knows before your mind does
  • Failure is part of clarity, not the opposite of it
  • Other people’s opinions are noise — even when they’re loud
  • You don’t need to know the whole path to take the next step

Why This Conversation Matters

Rianne’s story reflects what many high performers experience —
the moment when external success no longer compensates for internal misalignment.

If you’ve ever thought:
“I should be grateful — so why am I not?”
this conversation will feel familiar.


Read the accompanying article exploring change, identity, and redefining success ↓

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